Tuesday, October 26, 2010

My list of things which perplex me.

1.) It has been brought to my attention, A LOT lately, that I am unapproachable. Or, that I give off an unapproachable attitude. Even when I'm trying to be all nice and approachable. This Sunday, I made a big attempt to appear NICE and APPROACHABLE and apparently, by someone who witnessed said attempt, I failed miserably.

2.)Is this true? Do I really put off an unapproachable vibe?? Really?

3.) I always find myself wonderfully charming and funny. How is it possible that other people do not see that? Michael says I give off the vibe on purpose. That I knowingly put it out there that I am not approachable. Does that mean I get some level of satisfaction appearing unapproachable to people?

4.) How many people see through my bullshit?

5.) Is it important for me to appear unapproachable to people? Could I let that go?

1 comment:

Welcome to my World. said...

1. It isn't that you are unapproachable, one just has to be brave at first.

2. A little bit, yeah. Shall I retell the story of my first day at MACU?? :)

3. You absolutely are!!! I miss you like mad and think about you often. I would love to have a wine-on-porch night with you again.

4. Very few, I would hope.

5. What do you gain from that facade? You are a cancer, my dear. Is it your protective shell? Your own defense mechanism? We all have our own style. If we change that, are we changing our core person?

ps - I love you just the way you are! People can see through it and those that can't aren't worth having as friends.